The first sentence is: good is a habit.
this is what the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle said. If the good is a habit, then laziness is a habit. Were born, in addition to temper will be different because of nature, other things are acquired basic form is the result of family influence and education. Therefore, our words and deeds are cumulative habit. Some of our people formed a good habit, some people form a bad habit. Therefore, we should from now on become a good habit to make our best behavior for granted, become our second nature. Let us habitually to creative thinking, the habit of doing things to seriously, the habit of being kind to others, habitually appreciate nature
Note: To be \to be, you see equipment installed, you install 30-year look, installed a long time to form a habit.
second saying is: Life is a process.
things results, while important, however, the process of doing things is more important, as well that we will be more happy, but the process to enrich our lives. The end result of human life must be killed, we can not say our life is meaningless. There are few world eternal. Students fall in love, every day, vowed that I will love you forever, this is actually true. Statistics show that college students love the 100 pairs in the final 90 will break up, were married last half will divorce. You say you love can be eternal? Therefore, the most true to say that: \This experience is a process that enrich your life.
Notes: life itself is no sense, but you give your life meaning that you would achieve, so enjoy the process of life is a meaning.
third sentence is: the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line.
in human relations and the process of doing things difficult for us to do things right straight. We sometimes need to wait, sometimes cooperative, sometimes tricky. We do things that will come across many difficulties and obstacles, and sometimes we do not have to stiffness, hard red, we can choose to bypass the difficulty, there is an obstacle to go around, maybe do things more smoothly. Think about it, we and others have to think about Naju Hua speak better to listen to it. Especially in China, more complex society, we must learn to think of ways to understand others, to make people think you are this person is very mature, very good, you get to do it.
Note: If you are mathematics questions, be sure to answer the shortest straight line between two points, if you walk from A to B, clearly can last, but not all go, you are most better not go, because there are traps. In China do things, linear thinking in many places to run into a wall, this is the wisdom of doing things in China with Chinese characteristics.
fourth sentence is: only know how to stop people know how to speed up.
when I ski, the greatest experience is to not stop. I just started to learn skiing did not please coach, watching other people ski and is very easy to slide down the mountain from the top is not it? So I put on my skis, Chi Liu click on the slide down, and the results I slid down the mountain from the top, actually rolled down the mountain, bounded from point fall for many. I found that simply do not know how to stop, how to maintain balance. Finally, I repeated how to practice in the snow on the slope to stop. Training for a week, I finally learned to stop at any slope,womens snowboard, sliding, and then stop. This time I find myself skiing, and dare to go from top speed to rush down the hillside. Because I know if I want to stop, a turn can be stopped. As long as you stop, you will not hit the tree, hit a rock and hit people, you will not be killed. Therefore, only know how to stop the people who know how to fast forward.
Note: use the car analogy, the BMW can last 200 km, Chery is only 120 kilometers on, why? Engine estimated comparable, the difference in the braking system, 200 km on the car can not brake, Oh, my God!
fifth sentence is: give up a kind of wisdom defect is a favor.
When you have six apples, do not eat them all, because all you eat six apples, you have to eat six apples, eating into a kind of smell that is the apple flavor. If you put five of the six apples out to others to eat, although you lose the face of five apples, but actually you got the other five of friendship and goodwill. You can get more later, when someone is when other fruits, but also will share with you, you will get an orange from individual hands, hands that person to get a pear, you may get the last six different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, six friendship. People have to learn what you have to return to you something more important and rich. So, give a kind of wisdom.
Note: my personal principle is: Each one must be sublimated to give up, or do not give up; each choice must be a sublimation, or do not choose. Life the greatest joy is through the struggle to get what we want, so there are shortcomings mean that we can further perfect, there is lack of office means that we can do more. The United States have a television, talking is left to future generations a rich heritage with the endless, the results of his descendants were all into drugs, suicide, prison, or mental illness. Why is this so? Because the rich man left to their own offspring too much money, so they do not work you can inherit a fortune. Inherited a large fortune, almost anything can be bought. So, when a person does not lack, he was deprived of living space lost. If we wake up every morning, feeling their children today, what shortcomings, felt he needed to be more perfect, are still pursuing their own, it is a how to be happy about ah!
an art of life: learn to bow and bend
a butterfly flew in from the open window, another enclosure in the room flying lap, some panic, obviously, it is lost. Sudden hard left and right several times, it did not fly out of the house.
reason why the butterfly can not fly from the same route, because it's at the top of the total space in the room to find a way out, and refuse to fly to the lower position that there is a lower open for the windows. Even several times, it all flew up to two-three inches above the window at the top position, and can lower refused to fly again! In the end, only a little butterfly would not run out of low-flying air force, under his breath and fell on the table, like a lifeless leaves.
hordes of salmon is more rigid than the butterfly, is simply one way to go black. Salmon is very beautiful, big eyes, silver skin dovetail, usually living in the deep sea, the spring and summer spawning upstream, with the tide drift into shallow water. Fisherman's catch A very simple way: with a hole in the head crude bamboo, iron falling on the bottom line, into the water, pulled by the two boats, intercepting fish. A \open dorsal fin, more desperate impulse forward, the result was firmly stuck, as the fishermen received. It is often the one hand, complain increasingly narrow path in life, do not see hope of success, the other hand, conservative and not to change the old habits continue down the road. This is not something like butterfly, in fact, I'm Born with the East West, light does not shine. If we adjust goals, a change of ideas, full of infinite beauty appears vista.
known as the father of the Franklin American young man went to visit a highly respected veteran. Then you are young, and his chest rise of giant steps, a door, his head hit the door frame on a harsh, pain while he could not help rubbing his hand, watching shorter than his body to a Great cut open the door. Out to meet his predecessors to see him this look, smiled and said: \Remember: when the bow bow. This is something I want to teach you. \
Franklin to receive the teachings of the visit as the biggest harvest life and living life to its guidelines as a blind one. Franklin to benefit from this guideline for life, then he exploits for excellence, to become a great man, he's a talk he said: \not always tilted noble head.
perhaps, in real life we should try to learn to bow their heads, learn to accept defeat,women's snowboard, this is not difficult. Just know that when his touch when a bad card, not to hope that this set the winner. Only fools in bad luck when a broken hand on his card, we will definitely win if we work hard; learn to bow their heads, that is, into a quagmire will know in time to climb up, far away from the quagmire. Only a fool would find any time in on their shoes, we are 出淤泥而不染's; learn to bow, is on the wrong bus car, time off, while a car ride. Ray Murphy once said, \Indeed, otherwise there will be knowing how still obsessed gamblers lose it? Looking back on history, because of the lack of such courage and angry remonstrances of the people killed under the kings abound. Take a look around, because of the lack of such courage and lead to a big mistake of the world abound.
path in life, we often lost due to be proud of the way of things and to perseverance, something in a different spirit persist in the end, and lost himself. So with peace of mind, learn to bow, I am afraid this is the most basic of life should be common sense it. The valley, snow, snow covered with The branches of the cedar. When the snow reaches a certain level, the cedar that will be flexible branches bent down slowly, until little by little snow fall from the branches, so the plot again, and repeatedly bend, repeatedly falling, storms after Cedar intact. The other tree, because without this ability, the branch has long been pressure off the snow, and destroyed. A pile of boulders washed by flash floods on the grass, to a pressure below the grass, grass to breathe that fresh air, enjoy the warm sunshine, changing direction, along the gap between the winding stone unearthed in the land head out of the rubble of the barrier. A life for outside pressure to bear as much as possible to, in a time when not bear, what might bend, like cedar to step in as temporary, it will not be crushed; on your grass, as the flexibility to Guaige Wan, so it will not be stifled.
bending is not a compromise, but to overcome difficulties of a rational patient.
not bend down, but for better and more determined to stand.
bending is not to destroy, but to take a step backward; is to the brilliant life and goes on to have the last laugh in the face.
Institute bending, also have a pleasure of doom attitude.
Institute bending, also learned to face life with a beautiful sense of the suffering.
Institute bending, also learned to use a higher wisdom to see this world of vicissitudes.
bending is an art of life.
2010年8月23日星期一
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